Because at the end it’s always going to be YOU!

All of us at some point or the other might have heard this “you’re all I got” or “you’re all I need to complete me”. Yes I absolutely understand the conviction and the feelings behind these words and emotions; we’ve all spoken them out of love at one point or another including me.

But there’s something we need to think about, from when do we need people to complete us? From when have we become so dependent on other people, that we’ve lost the value of our own being? How and why does someone else have the power to break you or to shatter you to pieces? Are we not enough for ourselves? Are we in so desperate need of companionship? From when did we become so weak that we constantly need to be reminded that someone loves us? But more importantly, why?

Have we become so busy telling and explaining or showing someone we love them that we’ve forgotten to love our very own self? Have we really forgotten the importance of self-love? We all know the answer don’t we? It’s a yes, isn’t it?

So we need to be reminded of this,” At the end of the day; you’re all you’ve got.” From the very first breath of yours to everyday that has gone and every day that is going to arrive, till the very last breath of yours you’ll meet many people some are going to stay longer, some for a very short period of time but they are all going to leave at one point or another for many different reasons, but there is one person who’s going to stay and it is you and only you not your husband, your wife, your children, your parents but YOU.

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We all know this fact deep down, we’ve heard of this, we’ve read about this a million times, but we have never given it a thought, have we? Tell me the last time you did something because you liked it, because you wanted to do it? we all say we love ourselves but do we, really?

Who was there consoling you at 3 a.m. in the morning when you were lying on the bed thinking everything was falling apart?  Who was there to help you get up again when you thought everything in you was breaking, when the pain drenched you so deep it physically hurt. You’d not been yourself for weeks but who noticed it for the very first time, it was you isn’t it? Yes there might be people, who helped you through it, but you had to fight every emotion, you had to fight the pain, you had to find the courage and you had to find the strength to pick yourself up and carry on. It was you at the very end and you did it for no one but yourself.

So stop chasing people, chase yourself, find yourself because at the end, because when it matters the most, you’re going to know that you’re all you’ve got, that at the end it is always going to be you so stop letting your world revolve around people, yes they’re important, you learn a lot because of them, but everybody is temporary, they’re all going to leave at some point or the other but you, you are going to stay with yourself, you’re going to stay until you die, you’ll be the last one to leave yourself so learn to love the most important person in your life, learn to love yourself, because at the end you’re the only one who is going to stay and no body is going to love you more than you do.

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55 thoughts on “Because at the end it’s always going to be YOU!”

    1. Erika,
      You are absolutely right, whenever I read AAyushi’s post, the first thought comes in mind at this tender and teenager age from where she is getting all these high class knowledge which many of us do not know till the death, I don’t know from where she is finding all this wisdom, prudence at such a delicate age,
      “From her, I have started to know, that still, I need to learn more”
      Keep it up, Ayushi…………….

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  1. Okay,but would it be wrong wanting someone?
    What I think is that you shouldn’t lose yourself in the process,because it you who matters the most.As the title says,”In the end it’s always going to You”.
    I loved the post.

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    1. I already said that there’s nothing wrong but it’s you who’ll last the longest, they will but are you ever going to leave yourself in the middle of any crisis? There are going to be many people who’ll help you through but they’ll keep on changing, there is just one person who’s going to stay as long as you live and that is you, yourself
      Thanks 🙂

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      1. I wish there would be someone who’d stick till the end and I’d would do the same for them.I wish there would be someone who would last as long as me.Right now it is a dream,but I really want to achieve it.
        Maybe I’ll maybe not,but I’ll try.

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  2. Ayushi, this is awesome 🙂 When I was your age,I never had such profound thoughts 😉 But, I feel that to know oneself and discover our true abilities, one has to be social and depend on others. We are the most important beings and we should not depend on others, true that 🙂 But, we mostly one has to act according to the situation and sometimes situations demands sticking together as a team and sometimes, all alone 🙂 And, I totally agree with your point and for that 30 points and a phoenix feather for your wand, Ms. A 😛

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    1. Darahith thankyou soooo much 🙂 yes we need to act according to the situation, stick together, be for each other, support each other. I agree to everything but while doing it for others we sometimes forget to do it for ourselves and that’s what I want everyone to understand love everything and everyone but never ever ever forget to love yourself because nobody can be you 🙂 Ah and the phoenix feather♥♥ thanks again Mr. B btw as you’ve been talking about age what is your age? you’re making me feel like a 12 year old 😛

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      1. Oh sorry 😛 I am 98 years old Grandpa 😀 eagerly hoping to see my 100th B’day 😛 Yeah, we shouldn’t forget that WE have US and with that WE can DO anything, UNDO anything 😉 and I am 24 😛 but, still surviving in Hogwarts 😛

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      2. I’m still a teenager grandpa 😛
        True that, I agree to each and every word you say!
        You are OLLLDDD 😛 BUT NO ONE IS EVER GOING TO BE SO OLD THAT THEY CANNOT BE IN HOGWARTS. Remember Dumbledore? 😉

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  3. Love yourself and only then you’d be able to love someone else. Fall in love with yourself and share it with the entire world, so that someday, at 3AM in the morning when someone feels everything is falling apart, you lend a hand to that someone and teach them to love themselves.
    We are left to ourselves indeed, but once we learn the art of being with ourselves, we must also learn to provide a helping hand in the name of love! 🙂

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    1. And this made me smile a little more 🙂 hit the nail on the head! But first we have to learn to love ourselves and when we do there is going to lotss and lotss of joy and happiness 🙂 and chocolates too 😛

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  4. These are all untold things that you get it only if you have a hard go at your mind! Me first is considered selfish but for the most part of the world I would like to be me first always without thinking much. We sail alone for the most part but that is never the best part! The best part is when you meet someone who tops the priority list and I won’t ever regret for all the times I wasn’t my priority you know why, just cuz I wasn’t reminding myself to smile, I was just smiling unknowingly! Believe it or not human contact makes us better, if we try to make us better all by ourself we would rather grow arrogant and not be better. Yes its you and only you at 3 AM when darkness creeps but those nights when someone else turns the light on are always better 😉

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    1. I don’t agree to the arrogant part, and well I’m no where saying that we should run away from people, I just want everyone to look after themselves even if we’re called selfish for that people are important yes, they teach us everything, but we get so busy doing things for them that we actually sometimes forget ourselves and that is not why we’re here. Until and unless you don’t love yourself you can’t love others!

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      1. Well we agree to disagree! And I know what you are trying to say and I agree on it! But that’s also one point to think on. Balance is necessary in everything even a person who exhibits intense love is considered psychopathic and so is the one constantly running away from love! 😛 I will always look after myself cuz if I won’t love me how can someone else? 😉

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  5. A thought provoking writeup:) . Impressive 🙂 The biggest gift you can ever give yourself is self love 🙂
    Would like to quote Steve Maraboli here :
    “The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself.”

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      1. Ayushi,
        You as well as your all the posts keep me entertained all the time, but I have one little complain for you, sometime, as a friend have a look at my blog also, as you know, for maintain any relationship for longer period of time communication is essential from both the ends, otherwise that relationship cannot survive for longer period of time, I wish, you will understand what I mean……………

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      2. Thanks 🙂 I’m really sorry for that and I’ll take care you don’t have to complain about this next time. Apologies! I hope you’ll forgive me 😀

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      3. Ayushi,
        Apology granted with one condition, not next time, there is never too late for any beginning.
        You are very sweet,little,kind and humble friend, one never like to lose such a precious gem type of friend, in fact, the more one comes nearer to you, the more he start to admire you, so, I wish, I should develop more and more deep,meaningful and fruitful friendship with such a friend and that is why I insisted you to do so.
        Got my point?????????
        As always wishing you all the best…………..

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      4. I promise not to disappoint you 🙂
        You flatter me, everyone here does flatter me with these amazing compliments I really don’t know I deserve but all I can say is thanks I’m glad I found you and you found me 🙂
        Love
        -A

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  6. I was expecting single drop of crystal clear, pure and precious drop of rain straight from heaven but heaven is much more merciful instead of few drops it is heavy rain in the form of likes on my various posts, but, for, clicking like button is good but real guts lying in the reading and accordingly comment on it, what do you think????????

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